My unpopular opinons!!
Updated: 6/9/25

It's corny to be nonchalant 😞 I said it im sorry u guys, but it's just so WEIRD, like imagine your gf/bf is trying to talk to you about something that hurt their feelings and your acting extremely dismissive and aloof 😒, like are we fr right now? Like I understand if it's a mental disorder or something, but if you're just dismissive in general YOU GOTTA GO BRO

Okay, as much as I LOVE LOVE LOVE Hispanics like u have no idea how much I love Hispanics, u guys r fine asf and funny and so amazing but, yall GOTTA stop saying nigga bro, the n-word pass is NOT real, and i know you know it, and NO we are NOT the same race, NO we are not homies, yall LOVEEEE to say our word but you hate our kind?? Make it make sense, youre acting the SAME exact way as white ppl gang. Jump me for this opinion, i dont care. Sure, you can say it around ME, I personally dont really care, but it still irks me. Jump me for being hypocritical, I dont care man

LET PEOPLE BE THEMSELEVES!!! For christs sake, yall love to hate on people who have different interests than you. As a person who has been bullied and hated on for being myself, it's really irritating when people are trying to put you down just because you aren't like everyone else. LET SOMEONE BE ORIGINAL FOR ONCE!! As a black girl who has weird interests and is a kemonomimi, do you know how many times I've had people try to tear me down saying that I wasn't actually black for having non-sterotypical interests?? It's insane bro, like leave me alone. GET A JOB!!! IN THE BIG 2025 WE'RE STILL BULLYING OTHERS FOR BEING ORGANIC AND ORIGINAL?? Unless their interests are actually WILD i understand, but if it's like some furry, emo, scene, goth, etc, it's just stupid to see them being harassed for being different than others.

PICK ME'S!!! You guys use the word pick me for EVERY DAMN THING!! A pick me is when someone is tearing someone down just to get others attention!! It's commonly seen in women, it's kind of rare to see in men, but we can kind of see it start to occur in men nowadays. LIKING FOOTBALL AS A GIRL IS NOT PICK ME!! LIKING LAUFEY AS A GUY IS NOT PICK ME!! TALKING ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS IS NOT PICK ME!! If you are not actively tearing someone down to lift yourself up, that is not pick me behavior!
Now, easing into pick me behavior, why are some of you guys putting others down? Like I've seen it a BUNCH within the last few months, and it's insane!! It's even happened to me this year! Some girl that my guy friend is dating called me ugly just because I said that she was pretty and that I was going to rizz her up. Sure, it mightve seemed weird from her perspective, and she could've told me that she felt uncomfortable if I did actually make her uncomfortable, but NOPE, she flat out told my guy friend that "That gay girl is ugly", OKAY MISS QUEEN, IM NOT THE ONE THATS INSECURE!! Like, youre flat out trying to get your boyfriend to change his perspective of me. I DONT WANT YOUR MAN GIRL. I LOVE HISPANICS!!!!! PLS!! You guys, please try lifting others up, you'll feel so much better about yourself.

Talking stages.
Talking stages are absolutely insane this day and age, tell me why I was talking to this guy for a bit, and one night he was being distant, I INSTANTLY KNEW BRO HAD SOMEONE ELSE ON THE SIDE!! The next day, my suspicions were true. HE HAD ANOTHER GIRL IN HIS PFP!! ARE WE SERIOUS?!?! MEN, PLEASE DO BETTER. I know that girls do this too, BUT ITS MOSTLY SEEN IN GUYS. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YALL? YOU GUYS CANNOT PICK AND CHOOSE WHO YOU WANT. YOU ARE HURTING ANOTHER GIRLS FEELINGS. Do you KNOW how long a girl waits for a guy to respond to one single text? 1-7 DAYS. As men, you guys need to do better, and stop asking for nudes, you are DISGUSTING. And for girls, I know that MOST of you girls are lover girls and just want to be wanted, BUT SOME OF YALL NEED TO GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER. Some of you are the reason why "all girls are the same" is a common saying for guys 😭. Again, you CANNOT pick and choose which guy you want!! Pick one and stick with him! Guys are simple creatures, once they get comfortable, they get oddly weird, and they start fake punching you, I DONT KNOW WHY THEY DO THIS, BUT THEY JUST DO. If a man gets comfortable with you, YOU WON GIRL, YOU WON, DO NOT BREAK THAT TRUST OR ELSE YOU WILL TURN THAT MAN INTO A MALE MANIPULATOR!! PLEASE!! HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE. Please, some men just wanna be loved too, and that is completely fine, but we cannot just go around breaking each others hearts and moving on to the next one, as a generation, rebound relationships are SO normalized. WE CANNOT DO THAT ANYMORE! We as a human race CANNOT love without loving ourselves. It is literally humanly impossible. Trust me, I know we've all tried.

Gooning in dms..Okay, this happens mostly in men, so sorry guys, but im about to bash you here 💔. ANYWAY. Imagine you're talking to this guy right, a few weeks go by and things are going really well, you both are asking about each others day, you both are slowly easing into the petnames, and then, things start getting sexual. At first youre not really put off by it, because you guys have been talking for weeks, MAYBE MONTHS, you've put your entire trust, effort and heart into this man. Then, out of NOWHERE, whimpering vid WITH audio. ☹️ Then, he starts asking you to send something as well. MIND YOU, you never ASKED him to send that gooning vid, so you're like, "well im not too sure", or maybe if youre more blunt you give him a solid, "No, I dont send that weird shit." Then he starts BEGGING, starts LOVEBOMBING YOU, starts being DISTANT, ARE. YOU. KIDDING. ME? WHY DO GUYS DO THIS? WHY DO YOU WANT THE GIRL YOURE SUPPOSED TO LIKE TO SEND SOME NUDES TO YOU WHEN SHE DOESNT WANT TO? THEN YOU GET ALL PETTY AFTER SHE SAYS NO. This JUST happened to me, so dont mind if im overreacting. Still, why do men do this? It's so weird, just be normal and like a girl for who she is or just go on some porn websites and try to find someone to jerk off to.💔

Emotional intelligence
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The lack of emotional intelligence that people have is INSANE, as I'm starting to put myself out there more online and IRL, I remember that some people are so retarded mentally to the point where talking to them is like talking to a brick wall. Like, I've been hanging out with the same person for 3-4 months of my life, so I haven't really made that much friends since then, but for context, I met this one guy and we sort of bonded, and we became friends for a WEEK, a WEEK you guys. Anyway, the lack of emotional immaturity this guy had was insane, I can barely remember what this guy said, but the way that bro had me frustrated and confused most days was insane. I'm so glad that me and that guy are NOT friends anymore.
Anyway, enough about that, I feel like the most people that lack emotional intelligence are VRC players and Roblox players💔, those are mostly all the games that I know of that people are extremely weird. VRC players can't stop touching kids for the life of them and roblox players goon over a pixel.

VRC Players
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With VRC players, they act like their whole entire LIFE revolves around that game, I feel like your brain gets smaller by the second as you continue to play that game, like sure, there are some really cool people that play that game, but most of them can't keep it together, like y'all can't spell for shit, you trauma dump on every new person you meet, you say slurs, you basically walk around in naked avatars around children and say that they shouldn't even be on the game anyway. ARE WE SERIOUS? Sure, I completely agree that 5-10 year olds shouldn't be on that fucking game, but IT'S A GAME. A GAME. DO YOU SEE WHERE I'M GOING WITH THIS?
Kids get their hands on games no matter what, it doesn't matter what the recommended age for the game is, KIDS WILL STILL BE ON IT. Do you know how many children have CoD? GTA? Resident Evil? Like it's bound to happen buddy, but nope, you're over here swinging your VR tits right infront of a 9 year old. Literally nobody wants to see tits in their face while they're playing a game and trying to disconnect from reality, like I'm fourteen, I know what tits look like, but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want VR tits, ass or dick in my face while I'm trying to play Among Us dude AND get blamed for it because I'm "too young" to be on VRC.
It's invalidating my feelings and boundaries, but again I can just block people, so that's also a solution or just turn off people's avatars, which I already do. But you literally have to go into settings to change those features, and I'm 99% sure that once you sign up for VRC avatars are automatically on, so please, don't walk around naked in VRC infront of a kid that's obviously under 13 and stop saying slurs that you know that you are not apart of :(.
And I swear, VRC players are the most easiest people to ragebait, as a D1 ragebaiter VRC is like a jackpot to me, sure I take it too far, but those niggas will not block trollers for the LIFE of them 😭 like dude, I was ragebaiting this dude, he called me a nigger and so I decided to do some investigating, and he had "hope you guys have a good day!" In his bio and I was asking him if he could give me a good day, mind you, I was already getting on this dudes nerves and he didn't even block or mute me, MIND YOU, I've been annoying this dude for like 15-20 minutes now.Then, bro got his little gang on me, and to add to the fire, when his little slaves were in the process of trying to kill me in Murder 4, I was repeating that I was a little tiny e-girl and to not hurt me, like are in some games the only option that VRC players pick is to kill people over and over again, I'm convinced they like the attention💔.

HOMIE LOVERS!!
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Don't we girls all love gay little homie lovers? ☺️, the way that they do anything their group leader says, including making you insecure, leaving you on read, hanging out with his friends 24/7, dismissing you when you're trying to talk to him. We all love a good homie lover, but seriously, these types of guys are genuinely so annoying and dangerous to be around, at first they're pretty normal, nothing seems to be wrong with them until later in the relationship things are seemingly very odd, like he's treating his homie's like THEIR his partner, like it's actually insane how much they LACK oringinal thoughts. As soon as their homie or their homeboys tell him that his girl is mid, he's literally going to change his perceptive of her just because of what his friends said. Like are you that influenced by your friends that you'll dump your gf within two hours of dating just because your homeboy tells you that she's chopped and that you need someone whose prettier? Like it's an insane concept to grasp, but it occurs in men so much to the point where us women think that you should date your friends instead of us, like I know you literally BOUNCE on their cocks due to how much you're dick riding and glazing your friends. It's just insane.

Ppl who dont take sides
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Okay, let me further explain this one because this looks like im problematic. Anyway, what I really meant by this is basically people who don't defend people who are clearly victims. Like, what I mean by that is imagine you and some other person are having some tension, they accused you of doing something that you know for a fact you didn't do, and you're trying to look for your friends to help, but they don't because they don't want to get involved and they also know for a fact that you didn't actually do anything but don't want to get involved anyway. Like huh? And personally, I'm just speaking from past experiences, and I'm not going to bash any people here, but come on, if you know that your friend didn't do anything wrong and they're just trying to defend themselves and you're just sitting there not doing anything to try and help, you are also apart of the problem, and an enabler. I totally understand if you want to stay neutral, but in some cases that's just not a choice. You have to learn to grow a pair and help the best you can, because personally, if someone is cussing out my friend, I'm just not going to let that slide, especially if my friend didn't do anything wrong, but if my friend and another person are both in the wrong, you best believe I'm going to check both of them!! Because I'm not going to let my friend and another person that I dont even know dig a bigger hole for themselves and get into more drama and bring in more people into it. It's just insanity. You guys, please support your friends, check up on them and atleast try to diffuse the situation.